Living is Good, but Dying is Better

by Myrna D. Hughes

One of the most difficult realities to face in our flesh is the death of a loved one.  Some even dread thoughts of their own demise. This is perhaps because of fear of the unknown, for lack of knowledge brings about apprehension. It is through the Word of God, that clear enlightenment is given in regards to this matter and thus the transition for the believer does not have be viewed as something to dread, for dying is merely the beginning not the end.  The number of our earthly days, are predetermined by God and despite the length  can not compare in the least to eternal life.  For time is merely an increment of space designed by God in order that He can fulfill His will, plan and purpose. We as members of the body of Christ are not limited to this sphere called time, for our hope is found in Him, where we have been blessed with  all spiritual blessings in the heavenlies (Eph 1:1).  Unfortunately many prioritize the earthly/natural or temporal things which shall surely pass away above the eternal/spiritual things which shall never pass away. Their focus is on time rather than eternity. In his epistles Paul,  wrote to the church," that for him to die was actually gain and he preferred to go on and be with the Lord, however there was yet labor in the ministry to be done (Philippians 1:21-26). Paul further wrote that when we are absent in the body, we are present with the Lord (2 Cor 5:6,8). Because  of this revelation, when the time of  his departure from this life came, Paul was without fear, realizing that as with all other members of the body of Christ he could look forward to the reward of a crown of righteousness (2 Tim 4:8).  This knowledge should make the believer realize that" If you think living is good, dying is better"!

Read on..........

 

Rejoicing in Hope

by Myrna D. Hughes

in memory of my mother Joan Herron

The shortest verse ,that most repeat,

is that Jesus wept, for a loved one was sleep

You see the creator, in His Sovereignty

designed us emotional beings, with feelings indeed.

So to say do not cry is certainly absurd.

Time heals all wounds as we have heard.

In the scriptures ,there is certainly found,

Words to loose us that we be not bound.

Be not ignorant as Paul has said,

they are only sleeping, they are not dead.

Absent from the body, present with the Lord.

This great blessing, is more than life could afford.

To live is Christ, to die is gain,

Joy everlasting with no more pain.

I have a new building not made by hands

Eternal in all of heaven's strands

There is absolutely nothing that can separate me

from the love of God eternally.

So if you must weep, as some will do

Always remember God's Word is true

There is only hope, so do not sorrow

We will all be together in the great tomorrow

Remember me in your heart

For I only got a small head start

We will meet again in the by and by

Together again we will meet Jesus in the sky.

Rejoicing in Hope

Again I say Rejoice

 

This next story is also inspiring and gives an example of the peace which can be gained, if we view death from the eternal vantage point of our position in Christ Jesus.

 

 THE FORK
DONNA M. GRINAM

There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So, as she was getting her things "in order," she contacted her pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she wanted to be buried in. Everything was in order and the pastor was preparing to leave when the young woman suddenly remembered something very important to her. "There's one more thing," she said excitedly. "What' that?" came the pastor's reply. "This is very important," the young woman continued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand." The pastor stood looking at the young woman, not knowing quite what to say. That surprises you, doesn't it?" the young woman asked. "Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the pastor. The young woman explained. "My grandmother once told me this story, and from there on out, I have always done so. I have also, always tried to pass along its message to those I love and those who are in need of encouragement. In all my years of attending church socials and potluck dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork.' It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was coming...like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with substance! ‘So, I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder, "What's with the fork?" Then I want you to tell them: "Keep your fork ...the best is yet to come." The pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the young woman good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that the young woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She had a better grasp of what heaven would be like than many people twice her age, with twice as much experience and knowledge. She knew that something better was coming. At the funeral people were walking by the young woman's casket, they saw the pretty dress she was wearing, and the fork placed in her right hand. Over and over, the pastor heard the question "What's with the fork?" And over and over, he smiled.

During his message, the pastor told the people of the conversation he had with the young woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the fork and about what it symbolized to her. The pastor told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either. He was right. So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you ever so gently, that the best is yet to come.
 

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